RELATIONSHIP: 8 ways of strenghtening your relationship


This article is exclusively written by me:
Everyone’s relationship is unique, and people come together for many different reasons. But there are some things that good relationships have in common. Knowing the basic principles of healthy relationships helps keep them meaningful, fulfilling, and exciting in both happy times and sad:

8 ways of what makes a healthy love relationship...



1.Staying involved with each other. 
Some relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating to each other and working together. While it may seem stable on the surface, lack of involvement and communication increases distance. When you need to talk about something important, the connection and understanding may no longer be there.
2.Getting through conflict. 
The key in a strong relationship is not to be fearful of conflict or quarrel.  You need to be safe to express things that bother you without fear of retaliation, and be able to resolve conflict without humiliation, degradation, or insisting on being right.

3. Be the first to say am sorry.
Do always insist on being right, just a single word am sorry can heal a battalion of grief and anger. Even you are right just say "am sorry".
4. Try to hurt him or her atimes.
There are no peaceful and misunderstanding-free relationship. Look for what makes him or her angry do it and apologise. You won't know what makes him or her angry untill you try. 

5.Keeping outside relationships and interests alive. 
No one person can meet all of our needs, and expecting too much from someone can put a lot of unhealthy pressure on a relationship. Having friends and outside interests not only strengthens your social network, but brings new insights and stimulation to the relationship, too.
6.Communicating. 
Honest, direct communication is a key part of any relationship. When both people feel comfortable expressing their needs, fears, and desires, trust and bonds are strengthened. Nonverbal cues—body language like eye contact, leaning forward or away, or touching someone’s arm—are critical to communication.
7. Create a room for him or her to miss you.
Being around him or her is nice and ok but try and make him or her miss you a little. Give him or her a breathing space a little.
8. Make him hunger for you.

Try hangout with friends. Make him or her feel jealous. Once you discover he or she is jealous he or she would come back hungry for you.

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